Are you continually attracted only to men that are hot and unavailable? Has this become a dating pattern that is full of drama and making you feel sad, lonely and insecure?
Why take the hard road in any relationship? It is time to meet someone who has substance and puts you first.
Wouldn’t it be great to meet a guy who actually says what he means and they respect you and have no problem communicating how they feel towards you? You know where you stand with them and there are no guessing games.
Of course we need to have chemistry with our partner, but why are so many people attracted to someone who is not really into them long term? We KNOW when a relationship is on the right path but we let “chemical lust” put us in denial mode!
When you are with the right person things flow smoothly for the most part. There are very few games and no one is controlling the relationship. There is no push and pull because there is mutual love and respect for each other. There is no ego or power struggle. It’s a healthy scenario!
Don’t be mad at yourself if you occasionally get sucked into the bad boy arena, after all, they are good at what they do! They have had a lot of practice enticing the ladies with their sexual charm and it’s not always easy to resist. Just be aware and move on quickly.
This isn’t just a problem with women and there are plenty of men who have been lured into the web of high maintenance bad girls as well. The trick is to understand when someone is truly in your life because they really care about you. They are not there to use you as a trophy date, a booty call, or just interested in your wallet!
Love doesn’t have to be difficult when you have your self worth in a respectful place. Nice guys and nice girls make the best life partners.
Let me know what you think. Have you met a lot of bad boys? How did that work out for you? I will always take time to answer you back. Please watch the video above and leave your comments below!
Susan McCord known as "Dear Sybersue" around the Web, helps millennials and gen-exers find love and inspiration. As a mature woman, she has "been there done that" and has so many T-shirts she can open a store! Susan believes that we are all special and deserving of happiness. People get lost along [...]