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IsitTimeforYoutoTakeaDatingBreak?

Dear Sybersue
Dear Sybersue Dating/Relationship Coach, Advice Talk Show Host, Author & Advice Columnist
1y Vancouver, BC, Canada Story
Is it Time for You to Take a Dating Break?


In the video above Dear Sybersue discusses the topic: Is it Time to Take a dating Break? 

When Do You Know That It May Be That Time?

  1. If you are starting to get jaded or angry and you are lumping all your dates into one negative category; you need to take a breather from dating. "They're all the same!"
  2. You feel like nothing ever works out and there seems to be a pattern of cloned people coming your way. You are the one attracting them towards you, which means you are putting something out to the universe that may need changing up.
  3. You are starting to feel depressed and lonely.
  4. Your crushed ego is taking over which can play havoc with your self-esteem and make you difficult to be around.
  5. You are sad and feel defeated. "What's the point in going out when I never meet anyone?"

 I Don't Like Being Alone

Sometimes you just have to deprogram your thoughts and recharge your thinking if things aren't working out the way you want them to. You need to be comfortable being you and learn to enjoy your alone time. 

Being happy in your own skin is such a wonderful trait which draws people towards your confidence. They can't help but notice you!

We spend a lot of time thinking about negative thoughts when we should be thinking about how fortunate we are in many areas of our life. Some men and women who have too much time on their hands need to have a project or hobby that keeps their mind alive with a feeling of purpose.

Do some fun things that keep you from thinking about what isn't happening in your love life. Busy people have less time to ponder and sweat the small stuff.

It's OK to take a step back, refresh your attitude and make yourself the top priority for awhile! Take a time out and when you feel ready to go back out into the dating pool again you will be refreshed and have a new outlook!

It's never too late to have love in your life. <3

Please watch the video above and leave your comments below! What have you done when dating wasn't working for you?

Susan McCord 

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  • Sarah Fein
    1y ago

    I have found you attract the right one when you are empowered in yourself @Dear Sybersue It took me a long time to find this confidence though and it still wavers. Have you found this to be your experience too?

    I have found you attract the right one when you are empowered in yourself @Dear Sybersue It took me a long time to find this confidence though and it still wavers. Have you found this to be your experience too?

    • Dear Sybersue
      [deleted]
      1y ago Vancouver, BC, Canada

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    • Dear Sybersue
      Dear Sybersue Dating/Relationship Coach, Advice Talk Show Host, Author & Advice Columnist
      1y ago Vancouver, BC, Canada

      Absolutely! @sarahfein  We are the main course of our life so it starts with us being happy first. Everything else that enters our life after that is a wonderful dessert with a big cherry on top. 

      Absolutely! @sarahfein  We are the main course of our life so it starts with us being happy first. Everything else that enters our life after that is a wonderful dessert with a big cherry on top. 


Dear Sybersue
Dating/Relationship Coach, Advice Talk Show Host, Author & Advice Columnist

Susan McCord known as "Dear Sybersue" around the Web, helps millennials and gen-exers find love and inspiration. As a mature woman, she has "been there done that" and has so many T-shirts she can open a store! Susan believes that we are all special and deserving of happiness. People get lost along [...]

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