1. You Stupid Bitch from Crazy Ex-Girlfriend
Crazy Ex-Girlfriend is a comedy/drama/musical about a young woman named Rebecca who impulsively moves across the country to follow an ex. She dedicates much of her life to schemes in an attempt to win him back. In this musical number, one of her schemes has dramatically backfired. When I first heard it, even though it’s a comedic show, I couldn’t stop crying. It’s such a poignant example of the horrible feeling that is self hate. “You ruined everything,” she cries out, “you stupid bitch.” She asks the audience to sing along, screaming that she deserves this. If you’ve every felt incredibly low about yourself, or like you can’t seem to do anything right, this song is an accurate representation of how that feels.
2. A Diagnoses from Crazy Ex-Girlfriend
This one is a bit more cheerful. In this song, Rebecca finds out she has a new diagnoses to explain her behavior. It shows the hopeful feeling of understanding and belonging that comes with a diagnoses. True, it can be terrifying to learn what your diagnoses is, it can also be a relief. Rebecca perfectly encapsulates this feeling when she hopefully sings the lyrics “tell my this whole time I’ve belonged with those other people who share my diagnoses.” For the first time, she’s going to know who she is, try the right medication, and get on the right track. For people who’ve struggled with misdiagnoses, the wrong pills, doctors who don’t seem to understand, this song shows what it’s like to finally know what’s wrong. At one point Rebecca says she’s “armed with” her diagnoses.
3. Stupid Piece of Shit from Bojack Horseman
Pretty much everyone in Bojack Horseman suffers from mental illness. From depression, avoidance, substance abuse, and commitment issues in Diane, perfectionism that’s debilitating in Princess Caroline, addiction in Sarah Lynn, to the slew of things wrong with Bojack. Bojack is a self hating, alcoholic, depressed, anxious… horse. This scene was one of the most shocking and painful moments of the series for me, because it exactly shows what the inner dialogue of someone with anxiety and depression looks like. We do things that we know are bad, but we can’t stop ourselves. We assume everyone hates us as much as we hate ourselves. It’s a painful, but moving moment of television.
4. Ian from Shameless
Ian Gallagher from Shameless is perhaps the show’s most tragic character. Whereas many of the characters in the show seem to sabotage themselve’s and act in completely narcissistic, self serving ways, Ian is the one who has empathy, which is why it’s so especially sad when the signs of Bipolar disorder manifest in Ian. The show does an incredible job at slowly hinting at the signs of it. The genetic aspect, with his mom being bipolar is the first hint. Rather than suddenly showing Ian as a stereotypical crazy person, the show does a slow buildup. Ian is extra talkative, up late cooking breakfast, wanting to join the military. The next week, he won’t get out of bed. Slowly, his family recognizes that he’s bipolar. This all culminates in one of the saddest, scariest episodes of the series in which Ian steals his boyfriend’s baby, and has a psychotic episode. Though he seeks help at a hospital, and is eventually medicated, the show doesn’t pretend that his illness is gone. While he’s able to live a healthy life for a while, he does relapse, accurately showing how people continually struggle with mental health. Shameless avoids the Hollywood standard of people suddenly getting better.
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