Here's one of the problems of those who live in a jaded world be they criminal or just a warped mentality, because of the climate they place themselves in they think everyone has an agenda even decent people not of that world. They forget there are healthy decent people out there that not only are who they say but legitimately happy for them or others, mean well, and a good decent person because there's so many in the world they live in that hijack then proceed to warp the definition of what is a decent person. Therefore they get to a point they can't tell the difference mostly all by choice. They think everyone is basically as dysfunctional as the world they live in. Bishop TD Jakes once held a sermon about changing one's perception. He gave an example of when self professed "thugs" and gangsters say "This the world I live in", yeah well if you just go down the street there's a whole other world where people don't live like that. It's about changing your perception of people and what you think life is. In a sense interpersonal trauma survivors can easily fall into a similar mindset where we can think everyone is an abuser or utter predator. No everyone isn't a terrible person. The thing is to discern the difference between a terrible individual from those who are not. And that's usual through life experience but the whole "I'm gonna get them before they get me" always looking for a problem where there isn't one is A. No way to live. B. Stupid. and C. A state of "I am victim"-hood. Always looking for a problem, some subtext that isn't there, always picking at things that aren't there. It's a distraction from facing oneself usually and dealing with one's own issues. You can't live as a victim, always looking for contention where none would exist, you'll end up alone (or may as well be because you've repelled decent people from you via using/abusing them), tired, and miserable. It's a waste of energy really. As an example the sadistic perpetrator/stalker their clique you've openly seen me document their entitled unacceptable behavior/actions that has gone on for years. Their whole problem in life other than being a narcopathic contentious abusive chauvinistic sexually deviant predatory self professed @$$hole that's way too old to even use altered perception as an excuse, they compare everything to "The Streets" and to a "Hustle." AS well as hijack the word "Survival" confusing it with being a Predator. All the while fact is the world doesn't operate like that neither does basic morality. All the while seeing themselves as being "Edgy", "Genius" for "Living in His own world he created" for being as offensive, deprecating, abusive, and as horrible as possible just to go against "The status quo." In those cases that's not just lack of perception that's an excuse used for entitlement purposes. They and their whole clique see amoral human rights abuses and crimes towards innocent people as perfectly valid, entitled even owed, excusable. Point is if people don't check their perception and how they handle life and people in general they can end up just like that. So warped and twisted they don't even know what being a human being even is they've lived worst than an animal for so long by choice because even an animal has a conscience and a sense of a basic moral code to go by.
Aloha💖 Born of the wild, Spiritual (believer), Millennial, Survivor Leader for Gender Based Violence, Violence Against the Marginalized, Violence Against Women, Sexual Violence, Stalking, and Human Trafficking. A thriver. Journalism, Collaborator, Research, Adviser, Consultant. Multi Lingual. [...]