Dating in the “Digital Age” is worlds away from how dating used to look. And let’s be real here: it’s broken. Sure, the existing dating sites and apps make it fairly easy to find a quick hookup, but what about the millions of people who are genuinely looking for something more? Something deeper? Something with meaning?
Even dating sites that claim to go deeper end up giving people a false sense of closeness without 1) any real vetting from a compassionate relationship professional and 2) any clear direction on how to explore potential partnerships in a healthy and loving way. Today’s singles are left flapping in the breeze, hoping for the best as they navigate tricky terrain all on their own.
Are you as sick of this as I am?!
I’ve spent more than two decades working with thousands of people who are searching for meaningful love relationships and I know what works and what just doesn’t. This, among other reasons, is why it has been especially painful to watch the dating world devolve into the fake, surface-level and generally chaotic mess it is in today. I’d had enough, and I decided to do something about it.
The Lodge Social Club
What if singles everywhere could come together in a community where they could explore and work through whatever emotional baggage has been holding them back from finding “the one” while also enjoying the fun aspects of browsing through potential partners that have actually been triple vetted (identity, criminal and financial)? What if membership in a dating program meant an opportunity to figure out the truth of where you’re really at when it comes to love while knowing that anyone else you meet has done the same? Can you imagine dating in a world of such self-aware singles?
I can, and so could relationship psychology guru and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Harville Hendrix, nationally acclaimed dating expert and star of E!’s “Famously Single,” Laurel House, celebrity makeup artist Tim Quinn and Silicon Valley pioneer Ben Way. The five of us came together to create an all-new paradigm for modern dating. Our goal is nothing less than to change the world when it comes to love. That’s how The Lodge Social Club was born.
- online and app dating in a safe, vetted and supportive environment
- you (as well as every single you find) will have taken our Real Reveal™ test to determine exactly where you are when it comes to love (Ego Mate, Soul Mate or Life Mate)
- browse hot singles and know right up front whether someone is in a place of just looking for a hookup or being open to a long-term relationship
These “must haves” alone have brought modern dating to a new level, but that wasn’t enough for our team of Love Designers. We knew that there had to be a real-world element to truly break the barriers of today’s other dating options that have been failing the world’s singles.
That’s why we created The Lodge Social Club to include exclusive, invite-only, real-life events for members and their family and friends. There is just no replacement for getting to know someone in a safe and welcoming real-world environment, so we crafted an ongoing series of events that occur year round for people to attend if they want to break the mold of the dating methods that have failed them in the past.
The excitement is palpable, and the Real Reveal test is free for anyone who wants to better understand where they are when it comes to love. Why? Because in the end, that’s all that really matters.
Let’s create a world where we show up with honesty for ourselves and those we encounter in life and love. Let’s invite interactions that help us feel open, safe and willing to explore our highest love potential. Harville, Tim, Ben and I have opened the door. All you need to do is open your heart and walk through. Let’s change the face of dating as we know it, together.
Kailen Rosenberg is CEO and founder of The Love Architects, an elite matchmaking and love design firm that remodels the love lives of some of the world’s most influential people. She is transforming the face of love on this planet through her new Real Reveal™ test, which reveals the truth about who [...]