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Couldsomeonegivemeadviceonwhattodoifyouhavesexandthecondombreaks?

Rebel93
Rebel93 Living it up.
2mo Question

I'm freaking out, so thanks everyone in advance for your thoughts. 

9 comments

  • Elizabeth Stone
    Elizabeth Stone Founder and CEO of AttractTheOne.com
    2mo ago

    First, deep breaths. Unless you've already confirmed a pregnancy, the odds are good you are not, but you STILL NEED TO DO STUFF. But you're going to be okay.

    If you're still within 72 hours-- if it's available where you are and okay for you philosophically, get yourself some Plan B. It's available over the counter in a lot of places. TOTALLY WORTH IT. (I can't emphasize how worth it this is enough).

    If you discover you're pregnant, then it's time to have that talk with him. 

    Also, how does not know that the condom broke? If he's truly angry at you for the condom breaking, he might be someone to avoid in the future.

    No matter what you do in relationship to pregnancy, please take this opportunity to go get tested for STDs to protect your health going forward.

    You're going to be okay. This has happened to me personally and it all worked out all right. All you have to do is a few things now to protect yourself from major consequences later.

    First, deep breaths. Unless you've already confirmed a pregnancy, the odds are good you are not, but you STILL NEED TO DO STUFF. But you're going to be okay.

    If you're still within 72 hours-- if it's available where you are and okay for you philosophically, get yourself some Plan B. It's available over the counter in a lot of places. TOTALLY WORTH IT. (I can't emphasize how worth it this is enough).

    If you discover you're pregnant, then it's time to have that talk with him. 

    Also, how does not know that the condom broke? If he's truly angry at you for the condom breaking, he might be someone to avoid in the future.

    No matter what you do in relationship to pregnancy, please take this opportunity to go get tested for STDs to protect your health going forward.

    You're going to be okay. This has happened to me personally and it all worked out all right. All you have to do is a few things now to protect yourself from major consequences later.

  • Bethany Heinrich
    Bethany Heinrich Mogul Influencer
    2mo ago

    Hi @Rebel93 is this with your boyfriend? Have you talked to him about it? 

    Hi @Rebel93 is this with your boyfriend? Have you talked to him about it? 

  • Rebel93
    Rebel93 Living it up.
    2mo ago

    No but we've been dating around half a year. But we aren't boyfriend girlfriend and I'm afraid he's going to be mad. 

    No but we've been dating around half a year. But we aren't boyfriend girlfriend and I'm afraid he's going to be mad. 

  • Bethany Heinrich
    Bethany Heinrich Mogul Influencer
    2mo ago

    He shouldn't be mad! It's not your fault. Please don't be hard on yourself. I would let him know as soon as you can. 

    He shouldn't be mad! It's not your fault. Please don't be hard on yourself. I would let him know as soon as you can. 

  • Bethany Heinrich
    Bethany Heinrich Mogul Influencer
    2mo ago

    What do other people think on this? @Danica @Ari Mboya @Elizabeth Stone @sealnation @Florence Adelaide Tesoro 


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