There has been a bigger dilemma of just how much of the sex past that the couples should talk. In revealing your past, there are two major issues of concern. That is, you need to be as honest and open as possible to your partner but then again, if you open up so much, in case of a misunderstanding, your partner may use the past against you. Consequently, if by any chance the partner comes to learn the truth, it may affect the relationship. This is of topic that many marriage counselors are in disagreement about.
Sometimes, it just feels good to confess of the past so as to let go of it. A relationship provides a privilege to open up and present your best in a like-able manner. Pretending during dating is quite common and once you get married, a lot is discovered about each other and sometimes it can have bad consequences.
Sometimes, it is better to be honest from the word and the partner can decide whether to continue with the relationship or not. For instance, a girl may be afraid to confess if she has had abortions, number of sexual partners, etc. due to fear of rejection. If the man finds out of just how much you have been through, he is very likely to lose interest in you.
Before you can start dating, it would be a probably good idea to take a rice purity test. This is a test that revolves around your sexual past. It contains 100 questions and you need to answer as honest as possible. The questions can be simple questions to very complicated questions. For instance, you may be asked if you have held hands romantically in public, if you have taken alcohol. The questions can also be very complicated and bizarre such as, if you have practiced bestiality, if you have had sex with same gender as yours, drug abuse, etc. from the number of questions you tick yes or no, you will have an overall score. The higher the score the more pure you are. As the score lowers, you realize just how kinky you have been.
You can share the score with your partner and from the score, you can decide whether you would want to share inner details or not. Rice purity test is accurate because the participant does not need to hide. You answer the questions anonymously and nobody has to know but you. It is possible to gauge a person’s past by their rice purity test score.
Honesty and integrity are very important virtues when getting into a relationship. Similarly, what you don’t know won’t hurt you. As you decide on what to tell, you should not disclose your past without discretion.